Friday, January 15, 2010

it's a hard-knock life

i made chore charts for the boys today.
and by made, i mean i filled in the blanks and printed them off.

i wanted something easy to help the boys be responsible for their daily tasks without me having to nag at them.  
something tangible.  


i tried making my own on excel. 
at first i thought, "oh this is easy.  good thing i know how to use excel."

then i realized i hate excel and it's stupid and bleh.  
okay, that's a little harsh.  
i just need to stick to things like email and facebook. 
things for smart girls like me. :)

so i went a searchin' on the world wide web.
and i found things like this:

ummm, no.
then, the skies parted and i found this gem.
yes, please.


how fun is that?  love it. 
the awesome thing is it's a free download and you just enter your own info.
it's super easy.  
even techno-geniuses like me can manage it.
  
i made one each for avery & fin.
i entered their daily tasks.

then i slipped them into page protectors & hung them on the fridge.
i plan to have them use a dry erase or vis-a-vis marker to check off when they've completed a job.

then we can just wipe off and start fresh the next day! 
i think the boys will love getting to do this themselves.
hopefully having it right there in front of us will help us all be accountable.
and these aren't even really chores so much as daily tasks.  
just things they need to do everyday without me telling them. 

although the way they can destroy their room in 5 minutes flat would suggest otherwise.

i'm trying to come up with different reward systems to go along with this.
i'm thinking of printing off a blank sundae coloring sheet and when they check off all of their 
circles, we'll color one part of the sundae for that day.  
when the sundae is totally colored, we'll go out for ice-cream.
if you've ever taught school or been in a classroom in the last 10 years, you know what i'm talking about.
i'll try to do something new each time they earn a reward...maybe marbles in a jar....fill the jar full & get the reward....something like that....
i'm torn....
i don't want to go heavy on rewards, b/c these are things they need to do anyway as part of the family.
but i think it would also be good incentive to get them done.
i'm thinking as i write....but maybe we'll do a short term reward like the sundae to get them started.
and then a long term one like a jar full of something after that.

i also did a sheet for "extra chores."  
these are going to be for saturday chores.  
they can pick any two from the list to do before they can play or watch a show, etc.
again, that way i don't have to nag them to do a job.
they have ownership by getting to pick their job.

if you're still reading, congratulations, even i'm bored now.


so what about y'all?  anyone have any good suggestions for teaching your kids to do chores?

any methods you've used with success?  
i'd love any pearls of wisdom.



 

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12 comments:

  1. These are adorable, Sara. I'm definitely copying this idea! Let me know how it goes! Honestly, I bet they'll even enjoy the satisfaction of getting to check things off the list by themselves.

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  2. loved the "and if you're still reading..." comment. you make me laugh, so, sweet sister. And of course I was still reading. I'm so excited to see how this goes! All about puttin those busy bodies to work! Just kidding...not really...kidding. Anderson has recently begun asking for a "job." He wants one because Curious George Takes a Job. They are things like "put the plate in the sink" and "put the lids from the pots in the drawer"...mostly just things to keep him busy and not interrupting my "jobs." But he is great about putting diapers in the trash, laundry in the basket, and generally maintaining his room...I'm sure all that will fade at age 3. Then we will definitely implement That Exact Chart. So friekin adorable!!! I like how the lady talked about making chores be about letting them "contribute to the family" and therefore making them a part of something bigger...just need to tailor the language a bit, its a little too stuffy sounding for my taste. I like "Make Things Better" but that's probably even a little too altruistic for our babies. If you're still reading...you love me and you're my sister.

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  3. Again...love this and what a great idea about the slipcovers on the fridge for them to wipe off! Great idea!

    I love the color part of the sundae too! I've also heard of earning an "ingredient" to bake cookies. Like you earn the choc. chips, the flour, the sugar, etc. It makes it a little longer.... just something else I've heard.

    Another "chore" if you need/want one that I have Lindsey do is unloading the silverware out of the dishwasher. I try and have her do it each time it needs done. Courtney can do it too! So sometimes they do it together.

    Just another easy something for them to do! Thanks for the great chart!

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  4. What an interesting concept...we just use a loud obnoxious lady to scream out commands and follow our kids around all day with a bull whip and blow horn....... (bet you can't find that on the internet!) :)

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  5. Love the chart you found (and completely agree about excel...yuck!) I make all my charts and tables in word.

    As for the incentive ideas, I always tell my parents to make it something they can do together, some kind of special thing with mom or dad that they love doing (not monetary), because that's what kids like the most & you are making memories. I have also seen it done for a small allowance (small being the key word), so that they get to learn at an early age how to earn money and handle it. I like the sundae idea too (and that could definitely be a fun family thing). If I know Avery, making his own would make it an even sweeter deal. : )

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  6. What a good idea? Can you tell me your extra Saturday chores are?

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  7. Hi Sara! Thanks so much for sharing this on your blog! Putting it in sleeves so it can be reused is such a wonderful idea. I like how you said it isn't really "chores" but more things that just need to be done without being asked. I've found my kids are more willing to help out since introducing the chart (even if we aren't always consistent about checking off the list), and it helps to remind *me* not to do things for them that they are quite capable of doing themselves. :)

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  8. Amy-our extra saturday chores are (so far, i may think of more):
    take items to recycling bin,
    wipe down table,
    wipe bathroom,
    sweep,
    vacuum,
    take trash out,
    dust


    and i left space for extra's depending on what is needed that particular day

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  9. It's so awesome when you find something that works for you and it is free! Good luck.

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  10. Just found your blog. We have been doing this type of "chore list" for around four years now. I laminated ours and use wipe off markers. I have morning, after school, after dinner and bedtime "chores". For the little ones that can't read yet I added simple drawings next to the chore name. The Saturday chores are all worth a different amount, so the more you do on Sat the more you can earn. We just started a reward system, and it seemed to work great at the beginging, now the excitment is tapering off. But I know they would have a fit if we stopped. Anyways we use the Dave Ramsey Financial Peace Jr. You can check out his website to learn more about it. Our children are 10, 8, 6, and 3. The 3yo doesn't get the money saving thing like the others do, but it will be second nature to save half his money when he is older.

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  11. I'm printing this out to use as a "potty/obedience" sticker chart."

    LOVE IT!

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